"How do you know if you're who you're supposed to be?"

I can completely 100 percent understand what you're asking. As a matter of fact yes, I did recently come to a point in my life where I wasn't happy with who I was, and I was starting to question the things I was doing, or who I even was anymore.

I'm not sure because I only know from experience but I think that most everyone goes through this every once in a while, usually after you've experienced a lot of change in your life, or when something goes wrong, or you're just having an off month or even year.

You will find yourself, and it may take just sitting back and waiting to see what you're supposed to be, or maybe even to realize you're supposed to be who you are right now.

What I realized was that I wasn't happy with who I was and the main reason behind it was because of who I was surrounding myself with. I found myself forming into other people, and being too dependent on my "friends". I wouldn't make decisions for myself and I pretty much felt lost if that makes any sense.

I ignored the feeling for a while but then it only got worse, and I was becoming really unhappy with everything. I knew I needed change so I stopped hanging out with the people who were causing me to be unhappy, and in that case for me, it was because they were very dramatic and always had some sort of negative comment to say about everything and everyone.

Anyways, long story short, I found some friends who were a lot more confident with themselves and didn't need to bring other people down to make themselves feel better.

So my advice to you, is to take some time to yourself, and think about your life and everything that has been going on. Think about when things started to change, or if they did at all, and think about what you'd like to be different. You might surprise yourself.

It's never too late to change your life, especially now being so young and having so many opportunities.

Goood luck and sorry for the crazy long post haha.

"I've liked my friend for 6 years"

From what it sounds like to me you definitely have feelings for your "friend". I don't know if you've tried to tell him before or not but I think you should tell him. You obviously know him well enough to know you definitely like him if he's been your friend for that long, and that's also probably the reason why you sometimes deny that you actually do like him as more than friend, you probably don't want to ruin the friendship you two have. There is a chance you're risking that friendship but at the same time, you'll never know how you really feel about him if you don't take the chance and tell him you want to try being more than friends. It could end up being the best decision you've ever made. So I say go for it and tell him how you feel because from what I can tell, you definitely like this boy.

Good luck, I hope everything works out!

"I just don't know where we stand"

From what I can tell yes you two definitely have a relationship. Not all relationships have to be the typical "will you be my girlfriend, let's put it on facebook" type of relationship. As long as you two are both on the same page, and it seems like you are then not having it out in the open for all to see or know isn't such a bad thing. Sometimes the reasons relationships don't work out is because other people get involved. So yes in my opinion you two are definitely in a relationship,so congratulations ! Don't worry, it's completely normal for people, especially girls to question the status of a relationship, and sometimes it's uncomfortable to ask the other person where you stand without making things too awkward.

"What is your opinion on the 'hippie kids' "

I'm not exactly sure what you're asking but I think people who you're calling "hippie kids" are cool. Not all of them smoke, but it is true they are steryotyped as smokers. I find that they're easy going and don't get caught up in typical high school drama. That's also steryotyping but that's what I've found from personal experiences. Anyways, main point is that everyones different, and you'd be surprised how different people are than you automatically judge them to be. So introduce yourself to one of the "hippie kids" who cares what your friends think, and you might surprise yourself and make a new friend. ( :

"I've never had a boyfriend and I have never been kissed"

Don't worry at all!

You'd be surprised how many girls and boys all ages have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend and have never been kissed. It may seem annoying hearing other people talking about it, and feeling as if you're missing out on something, but the truth is, your time will come. "The best things are worth waiting for" as people say. Don't rush things just because they aren't happening right away, you'll find someone before you know it. A lot of times when you stop looking things appear right in front of your eyes, many time things you've never noticed before.

You're completely normal and there's no need to be concerned. You will find someone great when the time is right ( :

"Do senior guys ever date freshman girls? And if they do is to because they like them or they're easy? "

Sure, plenty of senior guys date freshmen girls. All for different reasons.

Of course there are the guys that are steriotyped to go after the freshmen girls because they "easier" and there are certainly a fair share of those guys in our school, but there are also plenty of senior boys who date freshmen girls because they actually like them.

You get a good mix of the two categories at our school.

"Do you agree with the 'Aint that Right' lyrics by G. Love and why? "

To me this song is saying to live how you want and don't hold back. It's also talking about love and how you should treasure it.

However people look at songs differently and sometimes get a different meaning.

So in my opinion, I agree with most of this song and how you should live your life and do what you want because it's short and you should take advantage of all the time you have.

Also love is something to be cherished just like he is saying in the song.